What people don't understand about love
True love does exist in the reality that we thought would be impossible. True loves comes in variations and as wide as the universe can be. But one thing you should keep in mind is that when you love you have to expect that you'll get hurt. Like I always say to everyone, there's no one in the world that loves without getting hurt. Those pain that made you vulnerable and sometimes made you cynical, are a counter part of every happiness you'll experience. Because happiness would be more valuable when you have experience what pain felt like. So believe me when I say that it's all going to be worth it.
Love isn't a stable ground and yet a battle field. Sometimes you have to fight if the other person is willing to fight. You fight all the odds, all the hindrances, and all the the circumstances that brought up the negativeness of everything.
Love is a complex word, a broad meaning and often confusing. Though as much as it can be tough. Love is also made to be understood because what you feel is important. It is art to understand and validate what happiness is, to value the importance of loving someone with every ounce of your being. It is indeed crazy, how one word with four letters can brought you so much feelings that ignites your body and soul. But the love will and would always be rational towards everything that is going on with your life. If you chose to love the right person, then love can never counterfeit anything.
Love is not how you think it is when the sparks are gone. When people have been together for years sometimes things becomes different. But it's not always about the spark. You see, love isn't something that is based on how much sparks you had but rather how much love you have. And most importantly how you wanted to be with that person. It's a choice that you have to work on everyday. A thing that will always caress you reminding the warmth rather than the sparks when you love a person selflessly. The warmth that will make you feel like home.
Love isn't only a commitment but a choice. A choice to love that person despite whatever circumstances. A choice to love a certain human being with all your heart, and to understood that love is also to be vulnerable. Love is a life long commitment, a love that can withstand the best and the worst things in life. To be steady even if a thousand hurricanes have passed by. To commit is to accept a person based on their flaws, and see them as a master piece that is captivating to one's soul.
Love isn't a stable ground and yet a battle field. Sometimes you have to fight if the other person is willing to fight. You fight all the odds, all the hindrances, and all the the circumstances that brought up the negativeness of everything.
Love is a complex word, a broad meaning and often confusing. Though as much as it can be tough. Love is also made to be understood because what you feel is important. It is art to understand and validate what happiness is, to value the importance of loving someone with every ounce of your being. It is indeed crazy, how one word with four letters can brought you so much feelings that ignites your body and soul. But the love will and would always be rational towards everything that is going on with your life. If you chose to love the right person, then love can never counterfeit anything.
Love is not how you think it is when the sparks are gone. When people have been together for years sometimes things becomes different. But it's not always about the spark. You see, love isn't something that is based on how much sparks you had but rather how much love you have. And most importantly how you wanted to be with that person. It's a choice that you have to work on everyday. A thing that will always caress you reminding the warmth rather than the sparks when you love a person selflessly. The warmth that will make you feel like home.
Love isn't only a commitment but a choice. A choice to love that person despite whatever circumstances. A choice to love a certain human being with all your heart, and to understood that love is also to be vulnerable. Love is a life long commitment, a love that can withstand the best and the worst things in life. To be steady even if a thousand hurricanes have passed by. To commit is to accept a person based on their flaws, and see them as a master piece that is captivating to one's soul.
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